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SHOCKING: She had just said ‘I do.’ Then she pulled a gun on her husband and fired.

It was definitely a honeymoon the bride or groom won’t forget.

Just hours after her wedding, a Tennessee bride ended her big day with a trip to jail after pointing a gun at her husband, according to AP.

Kate Elizabeth Prichard was still in her wedding dress when she got into a heated argument with her husband James Burton, prompting her to pull out a 9-mm. pistol, according to the New York Daily News.

Authorities soon received a report of a couple arguing at a Clarion Inn motel, Murfreesboro, Tennessee, police Sgt. Kyle Evans told WTVF-TV on Monday.

Prichard and Burton denied any conflict when the police arrived, but one witness told authorities that the bride aimed the gun at her husband’s head and pulled the trigger. The gun did not fire because it was unloaded.

She then loaded one round in the gun and fired it into the air as a warning shot, leading everyone to run away from the scene.

“After the incident, she went to the bathroom and disposed of the weapon, hiding it in the bathroom,” Evans said to News Channel 5.

Witnesses claimed that both Prichard and Burton were drinking heavily before the argument and subsequent gunfire.
Evans said the police “let the husband know the honeymoon was over and his new wife was going to jail.”

The bride was charged with aggravated domestic assault and released after posting a $15,000 bond.

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She’s no good, But I miss her

​She’s not good for me, but why do I still miss her?

Wondering if anyone else has been or is in this situation, and how do you deal with it? 

I haven’t spoken with my ex in about two weeks, and I’m liking it this way. I was the dumper, but she made it a bit more painful by blocking my email and phone number. 

In my heart, I know she was not right for me and I know that she didn’t treat me very well. Sometimes, I find myself thinking of the good times and some of the sweet things she did for me. However, when I size everything up, as much as I miss the good times, I realize she had major issues and was not ready for a relationship. 

What KILLS me is when I get stuck thinking about the good times, when I remember nice things she said and did, and things I could have done better. I have a little bit of a panic, and I start to replay conversations and situations, and wonder if I could have somehow modified my behavior to change the outcome so I could still be with her. 
It almost seems silly and irrational, because all throughout this short relationship, I had this gut feeling saying, no, no, no, she has issues, she’s not over her ex, she’s not a good person, etc. When I get into these moments though, I have very strange thinking and I get tempted to find someway to contact her. 

It’s usually worst on the weekends, because now that I am single, I have not much to do. I don’t have many friends, and when I was with her, I spent alot of time with her. Now that I am single again, I’m at home alot of the time by myself. All of this idle time allows my mind to wander. I’ve tried pretty hard with the few friends I have. The one has a girlfriend and he spends most of his time with her, so I’m lucky to see him maybe once or twice a month. The other friend – it never seems to work out. I’ve tried the past few weeks to make plans, but he’s always busy.

Wondering if anyone else is in a similar situation? How did you deal with it? 
I’ve also started to do some online dating. This was a 3.5 month relationship, and like I said, in my heart, I am done with this girl. I feel like online dating is OK, but sometimes I wonder if it’s really a good idea. I haven’t met anyone yet, because alot of people are flakey. The people I actually like just disappear. I’ve found very few profiles online that I actually liked…

… But seriously, who’s this she I’m talking about? 😂😂😂 LOL

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Do Not Take It Personally (Byron Pulsifer)

​All of us meet hundreds of people during a lifetime and some of these people are memorable, some we really like, and some who seem to be forever in their own space most often ignoring or unaware of their own attitudes either consciously or unconsciously. 

How Do You React?

And, for a lot of us, the actions, or reactions of these types of people can certainly annoy us or aggravate us and lead us to take their behaviors personally. 

What About These Situations

For example, how many times have you been driving to work when another motorist has cut you off, made a dangerous lane change without signalling, or nearly rear-ended you because they were tail gating you? I’m sure this has happened to you. How did you react? 

Did you react emotionally by blowing your horn incessantly, speed up to catch them and give them a rude gesture, or did you just sit there boiling over? In other words, did you take this action by the other driver personally? Well, at one time or another, we have all probably felt this way and allowed this inconsiderate motorist to ruin the rest of your day. So, what have you done? You took their actions personally. 

What about the technological marvel of the modern day computer that quits responding, or develops a glitch so that you cannot get to that critical assignment? 

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Do you think that this inanimate object was designed to foul up your day just when you really needed to get that task done for the boss? No. It’s just a piece of machinery – it has no mind, it has no soul, it has no personality. So, if you take its’ failing as personal, you have made it human. Do not take it personally. Realize that you are assigning power to this computer it does not have – you again have given it power that it does not possess. You have given it power to control your emotions. 

And, what about that colleague who is never wrong, and where you are never right? Is this kind of person telling you more about yourself, or are they really making an unconscious statement about who they are, and their own need for ego enhancement? Do not take his or her actions personally or you are allowing someone else to tell you who you are and what you are worth. 

The Choice Is Yours

The message should be clear to all of us. We are human beings full of emotions and behaviors but we all have a choice to make our lives what we want; our perceptions and reactions can be controlled if we understand that there are hundreds of inputs everyday that call us to respond. How we respond is not dictated to us as if we are programmed to respond a certain way; we are not robots. Choose your reactions based on who you are not on some extraneous event or someone else’s needs. 

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3 THINGS: Types of Women every Man wants to Marry

​We are tired of hearing cases of domestic violence and abusive relationships. As beautiful as marriage is, it is not a do or die affair. It is important for you to choose your partner carefully in order to have the best out of the union.

You cannot feign ignorance if you end up in an abusive marriage. It is either you failed to see the signs or you decided to ignore the signs you saw. The beauty of a relationship goes beyond being joined in holy matrimony; it is the life you life after being joined that matters most to people.

Since the society has made women a focal point of attention when marriage is to be discussed, we are going to let you know the major types of women every man wants to marry. Even though people around makes women feel eerie about being single when they are in their late twenties, we will tell you the things you need to work on while you wait on your man.

If you are older than 25 and still single, it will be good for you to calm down and do the right thing. It will be painful for you to have to wait that long before getting married and still end up having a bad marriage.

Men have a mind of their own; irrespective of the shape you may have as a woman, there are certain things they look for when marriage is in view. Check out the types of women that will be every man’s dream woman any time any day:

1. The submissive woman

No one wants to know about your qualifications and the positions you occupy. If you are not submissive to your man, you are of no use. Men want to be in charge, knowing they have a spouse or a partner who makes them a priority thrills them.

Being rich and industrious is a plus if you are submissive. Being submissive does not make you a fool, you should never interpret this virtue as slavery.

2. The home keeper

Not all men are coordinated! Some find it difficult to put their acts together. Being in a relationship with a woman who can put the home and their affairs into order is important.

They are rest assured that everything is fine at home when they go source for money to keep the body and soul together. If you are beautiful and curvy without being able to render any help in the house, men will continue to use and dump you.

3. The woman who is not a liability

You do not have to be the CEO of any company for the world to see you are working. Men love women who are dedicated and hard-working.
These and other qualities are the things they will put together when the word ‘prospect’ comes up.

A woman is considered beautiful inside-out when the men know she can fend for herself and not depend solely on them. It is not fun when a party gets to drop money every time while the other party is not yielding.
If marriage is on your mind, you have to invest in yourself before expecting any man to place his money on you.

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5 THINGS: Ways To Spoil Your Girl Without Spending A Dime

​It’s been said that money can solve most of your problems which is true to an extent but in certain situations, money truly isn’t the only thing that can help.




With the current situation of the world, some guys who used to spend a whole lot on their girlfriends have needed to make major changes in order to survive.

Does this mean the end of your relationship is near? No, if your woman truly loves you and not your money, they are many ways to pamper her and show how special she is to you without one naira leaving your pocket.
Here are five sure ways to make your girlfriend feel like a princess when you don’t have money to blow:

1. Make her a romantic dinner.
This is for the men who know how to cook…or at least can whip up a decent chicken or fish stew. You should already have said ingredients at home so you make it the way you know she likes.

You also have the normal white candles and some matches at home, so you can dim the lights and light up the candles to set a romantic mood. Sure, it won’t be as as glamourous as in the movies but the effort is really what makes it worthwhile.

2. Help her with her chores.

Your girlfriend may need to clean the house or wash her clothes or do her hair. All these things are quite stressful and you offering to help out will really go a long way.
Add her clothes to yours and wash them or help clean the house or see how you can help her do her hair. It is not usual boyfriend behaviour and will come as a nice surprise and she will be glad to see how much you care.

3. Sing her favorite song to her 

You don’t need to make a show of it or get a mic but just sing to her at some point during the day. You don’t need to have the best voice on earth but try to sing on key.
Usually, when women like a song, they imagine the singer wrote it for them so imagine how happy she will feel if her boyfriend sings the lyrics to her.

4. Help her with her work problems. 

Whether she is employed or unemployed, we all need to strategies how we want our year to work out. Those with good jobs want to get better ones and those without jobs want to get a good one.
She may already have a plan afoot but involve yourself and see how you can improve it for her or help her reach her goals quicker.
5. Give her a massage. 

After a long day or work, we all need to relax and let our bodies reboot. Massages are a way of relieving our muscles of the stress which helps the body relax.

Most women won’t have the time to book a masseuse or go to a spar so you learning some basic techniques and giving her a free massage will definitely make her day better.

Are You Being Played? 3 sure signs she’s using you for MUGU

Men are usually painted as the mean ones in relationships. They are blamed for cheating, being disrespectful and generally taking the piss. However, these misdeeds are not limited to guys alone. Some girls can wash and hang a guy dry, clear his bank account, leave him broke and on to the next one.




It takes a really smart guy to detect signs he is being played. Especially when he is in love with the girl, his mumu button is activated and only a deliverance or friends intervention can save him. So guys, before you burn a hole in your pocket and your heart, study the signs that let you know if she’s real or just playing your ass.

1. Always the damsel in distress

Now this is a major warning for guys with a hero complex, always wanting to be her knight is shinning armour; if she calls you to save her all the time then you want to start hear alarm bells. You are her personal chauffeur, her go-to “best friend” when she has nothing better to do, her cover-up buddy (always covering up her ass, even when she doesn’t let you in on the full story). If you notice this, don’t panic just be aware of your position in the life of the girl you might be thinking is your potential wife.
2. On a date, she comes out with all her family members

Whenever you have a date or plan to hang out, she shows up with all her friends and family members without prior notice. Don’t be deceived, you are not getting introduced to her circle, she has brought them so you can feed them all. If you are loaded and have no problem with picking up the bill for seven human beings you most likely never met before then, go ahead but don’t say we didn’t warn you.
3. When both of you are alone, her mood changes

Aside from placing you in permanent friend zone, she will tactically make sure you don’t get any opportunity to share your true feelings with her or get intimate. Once both of you are alone, she wants her space and becomes a super nagger. It is only about her and how the world is against her, all to stop you from trying to escape the cage she has locked you in.

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Think Twice Before You Get That Tattoo

​Don’t get the tattoo blues after a break up. What we can learn from Brangelina split

News is that with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s divorced pending, the Hollywood actress is now looking to have her tattoos removed – only to join the increasing number of us regretting our inky tributes to ex partners.

It was only a year ago that Brad showed off his latest inking – a design dedicated to his wife and kids that involved a cross on his right arm with the letter A and the initials of his children intertwined.

Brad, 51, also has separate tattoos on his back, arms, calf and on his stomach and Angelina has a design on her upper arm of the birthplace coordinates of her children – a tattoo that at the time replaced the name of her ex-hubby Billy Bob Thornton.
Also this month, Eva Longoria documented the removal of her wrist tattoo on Snapchat, warning us all that although it may be painful having a tattoo inked on, it hurts more to get it removed.

And this serves as timely reminder for us all to think before we ink.
Recent figures reveal that revenue for tattoo removals has climbed 440% to an estimated $75.5 million over the last decade.

In fact, we are spending an increasing amount on tattoo removals with new technology in tattoo removal techniques driving up demand.

Anouska Cassano is a micro-pigmentation practitioner who specialises in chemical tattoo removal and is Densdome online partner.

She says: ‘Relationship break-ups and job-hunting have led to a surge in tattoo removal – they’re the two major reasons for regret. It’s particularly important for those with job opportunities and I’ve had people people beg for removal in shortest time, without caring about potential scar damage.

‘There are more tattooed people than ever before and the numbers are rising, particularly 23-45 age group – most of us will have family members or friends with tattoos and this helps normalise them – or can make it feel that tattoos are something most people have.’

However, she warns: ‘My strong advice is that if you want a tattoo, do your research! Think about what you are looking to portray through your tattoo and, most importantly, make sure you can cover it with work clothes! Not every country, not every career and, maybe, not even you will want a visual permanent reminder of the time in your life you opted to have your tattoo or design.’

Despite new technology making it easier to remove tattoos, Anouska suggests that new trends for white or fluorescent tattoos make this impossible with laser.

She adds: ‘There are also some colour tattoos that have a “shine” and which promise long-lasting vibrant colours – which they certainly deliver – but, be warned, it’s the shine that makes laser removal virtually impossible.’

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